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By Carole wildman

 You might have heard of the power in all of us to realize our dreams by using mind power; that our subconscious minds hold all the power to use the universal energy to weave our desires into shapes and forms in our everyday lives and experiences. But, if this is so, you’re likely wondering, then why don’t we see so much more of this happening? And, you might also wonder why don’t seem able to get it to work for you.

Well, this is because, as with all human skills and abilities whether they are taught to use from others or born into us, we have to learn how to use the dream manifestation power in the right way. Is there anyone with any great gift or talent who doesn’t have to train and study to make it bring the results they want?

So, what should you do to manifest your desires and realize your dreams?

First off, you have to really know what you desire! Yes, we all know the vague general wants–we all want joy, a great sex life, romance, health, wealth, and success. Now, the problem here is, these are all vague; they are not defined. In order to manifest your dreams, you have to know exactly what you want.

Doing what, exactly, would bring you joy? What is your image, in detail, of a soulmate? What does it mean for you as an individual to be healthy and fit? What material things and experiences do you want in your life that money could buy for you? And, each one of us must define success in our own way. Only by way of a deep knowing what you really want can you get the energy focus together that you need to bring it from fantasy into reality.

You should start by writing down what you really want, and also why you want it. You can also draw little sketches of the things you want, find photographs that represent those things, etc. Keep your collection in a journal and add to it and/or look over it every day.

And as to fantasy: that’s where all of your dream realizing begins. You see, you must use fantasy to experience your dream “as if you already have it”. You’ve heard many times before that you are supposed to talk as if you have it already, use creative visualization, etc. But these are vague instructions that tell you nothing and are quite misleading. You must use the power of fantasy to charge up the mental energy you need to realize your dreams. In fantasy, you see yourself having realized your dream in great detail, and you feel the feelings of it being real. You touch what you desire, you smell what you desire, you taste it and and hear it.

As far as talking “as if” you already have it, this is only effective if you talk candidly about your fantasy life–but, with the positive spin that you know it is coming into your life even as you speak. You know it’s coming, all you’re doing is being patient while it’s delivered! If you say you have something you don’t have, that doesn’t make you a dream manifester; it just makes you a liar. Your subconscious mind does not accept lies. Besides, other people will find you to be crazy and this will negatively impact you.

In fact, you should try to discuss your dreams only with people who are supportive of you. It won’t hurt to mention your fantasies once in a while to people not on the dream realization path like you, but you must save all of your consistent, deeper talk for those who sympathize and will understand you.

Finally, cultivate an attitude of gratitude. Again, you don’t want to tell lies and be grateful for a dream that is not yet a waking reality. So, start by looking around yourself, and within yourself, and finding all of the things you do have right now that you should be grateful for–and believe me, you have them. For one thing, you’re alive, aren’t you? Stop taking your life for granted. Be grateful that you are alive! You’re reading these words here, aren’t you? Be grateful that you can read, and for the Internet! Be grateful that you are learning how to realize your dreams! An attitude of gratitude opens you up to the delivery of abundance and fulfillment, so that when it comes, you are awake to receive the delivery

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By Mira Williams

 Impression of your psychology professor, you might respond, “She is great.” Then you might go on to describe your perception of her characteristicsfor example, She is charming, intelligent, witty, and sociable. These opinions represent inferences you make from the samples of her behavior you experience directly. From this description we can also infer that you have a positive impression of her.

As we form impressions of others, we organize the information in two important ways. Our Impressions are both integrated and unified. Traits, actions, appearance, and all of the other information we obtain about a person are closely connected in memory, even though the information may have been obtained in an interrupted or random fashion. We might obtain some information today, more next week, some more in 2 months. During those 2 months, we interacted with many other people and developed impressions of them as well. Nonetheless, we integrate each relevant experience with a particular person and perceive it as unified, a continuous block of information.

Consider Peg. You meet her and she tells you that she is about to have her first baby. You make a mental note about her situation and form some impressions about her personality. These impressions will be distinctive no matter how many other people you meet. When you encounter Peg later, you notice that she looks tired and disheveled. You remember her pregnancy and now infer that new motherhood must be a tiring business. You integrate this new information to maintain a coherent impression of her.

Our first encounter with someone also often contributes to an enduring impression we form. Primacy effect is the enduring quality of initial impressions. One reason for the primacy effect is that we pay less attention to subsequent information about the indi-vidual (Anderson, 1965). The next time you want to impress someone, a wise strategy is to make sure that you put your best foot forward in your first encounter.

Social Comparison. How many times have you asked yourself questions such as “Am 1 as smart as Jill?” “Is Bob better looking than I am?” or “Is my taste as good as Carmen’s?” We gain self-knowledge from our own behavior; we also gain it from others through social comparison, the process in which individuals evaluate their thoughts, feelings, behaviors, and abilities in relation to other people. Social comparison helps individuals to evaluate themselves tell them what their distinctive characteristics are, and aid them in building an identity.

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By suegold

 An entrepreneur has two factors to face when running a business: Internal and external. The external factor involves the environment, the market, and other components outside the entrepreneur and the business.

The external factors are parts of a business that you have virtually no control over. These factors present the greatest risk to a business considering the fact that you cannot do anything but adapt to them.

External factors include both opportunities and threats. Opportunities are those external factors that can cause your company to prosper, provided you are able to respond to them correctly. Threats are those which can cause your downfall if you do not learn how to adapt. Sometimes, entrepreneurs even experience opportunities turning into threats and vice versa. Of course, a situation either becomes an opportunity or threat based on his or her perception.

Now we come to the internal factor of business. The internal factors include the strengths and weaknesses of the entrepreneur and his or her venture. An entrepreneur’s personal development affects business because of the plain and simple fact that it is a part of the internal factor.

An entrepreneur’s personal development touches business more often than people may think. You see, although more and more people say that separating your personal life from business is very crucial, it is just too hard, if not impossible.

An entrepreneur’s personal development affects business because this determines how well an entrepreneur can respond to the external factors. You see, personal development has a great impact on how you take the problems that face you in business.

Many people think that if you develop yourself professionally, then you can let go of your personal life when you are at work. Unless you have multiple personality disorder, however, you cannot just forget about your personal life once you are handling your business. An entrepreneur’s personal development affects business because the way an entrepreneur adapts to the external factors is determined by his or her personality.

You see, you may gain the know-how and the facts from school, but character development is only taught by life. So how do entrepreneurs gain personal development?

Well, to tell you the truth, most entrepreneurs get it from their childhood. You see, there’s nothing like real life experiences to develop your character. When you have faced different problems and overcome the toughest challenges of life, business can actually be a breeze.

Some entrepreneurs develop their characters through years on the job. This is the reason why experienced entrepreneurs are more likely to succeed than new ones. You see, years on the business can help you cope with the different external factors that you face. Some entrepreneurs can even claim to have desensitized themselves to the different problems that one can face on a business.

However, it is said that the true character of a person is not measured by how long he resists falling, but by how often he keeps getting up. You see, the best kind of entrepreneurial character development for business is how to take your hit and not be defeated.

As an entrepreneur, you will be facing defeats in your life. Bruises will form over your business reputation. Competition will leave you wanting to quit. Despite all these, you need to stand up and be victorious. Even through different trials, you must stand. Financially speaking, you need to lay it all on the line for your dream. Given time, you will realize that all the risks you took were worth the success. Hold on to your dream whenever anything threatens to break you apart. In times of trouble, let the development of your character show.

Juggling personal life and business can be hard for the entrepreneur. Balance is essential to every entrepreneur. Despite the fact that new business ventures need a constant eye, you must learn how to take care of your personal life as well. Learn how to prioritize important things. Here is a lesson: handling life and work is like juggling glass balls. You are afraid to drop one, but trying to keep them all in the air can wear you out. However, you have to realize that some of those balls are actually made of rubber and will bounce back even if you drop them.

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